LadyWarfield
Editorial Reviews
Pocket of Pain - A Story of Transformation and Survival (FIVE STAR REVIEW)
by —Stephanie Elizabeth Long, Writer/Reviewer for ReaderViews.com
In this coming-of-age memoir, sixteen-year-old Suzanne candidly shares the ups and downs of navigating her teen years, including her tumultuous home life living with her verbally abusive father, the inevitable divorce between her parents, and enduring a toxic relationship that stripped her of her confidence. Desperately seeking love and belonging, Suzanne gets mixed up with Steve, a seemingly sweet older boy who makes her feel special. But she quickly realizes that beneath that handsome exterior is an angry, possessive predator, wanting to claim her as his property.
She knows she needs to break free of Steve’s proverbial shackles that bound her, but even moving away for college cannot shake his looming presence, nor the shocking secret that is unearthed.
“Pocket of Pain” by LadyWarfield is an exceptional memoir—poignant yet incredibly inspirational—about a young woman who endures gaslighting and abuse but eventually finds the courage to leave it all behind. Set in rural Virginia during the early to mid-80s, the author regaled me with new-wave nostalgia and bold fashion reminiscent of the era. Like many teens, music played an essential role in Suzanne’s evolution; classic rock and new punk bands created the soundtrack to the moving coming-of-age book.
While I would recommend this book to anyone, it would resonate most with women, particularly those who are/ have been in an emotionally abusive relationship. The author expertly illustrated the loss of identity one experiences when controlled by a relentless narcissist. Suzanne’s friendships became strained, and her interest in anything beyond Steve dissipated as he forcefully made her world smaller, making it all about him. LadyWarfield also addressed how toxic relationships are often cyclical and passed down generationally. Suzanne’s father was a miserable tyrant who controlled the family through fear. Because she grew accustomed to this dysfunctional existence, she was drawn to Steve, who had many of the same qualities as her father.
“Pocket of Pain” profoundly impacted me - not just because it reminded me of being young and navigating toxic relationships, but because Suzanne’s evolution was mesmerizing. It was hard to believe that the book only spanned a few years; the lessons she learned that led to her empowerment seemed like decades. From a young people-pleaser, desperate to be loved by a poisonous manipulator, to a feisty punk-rocker who won’t take flak from anyone, I read the final page feeling awe-inspired by her journey. Suzanne’s transformation has forever left an imprint on my heart.
Ladies, you do not want to miss out on this powerful memoir! LadyWarfield has taken 80s nostalgia and weaved it into a timeless tale of young transformation. Suzanne’s story is an emotional rollercoaster, but one I’d ride again and again. She proves to readers that we all have the strength to persevere when it feels like the world is closing in—five stars for this root-worthy story of survival.
Readers' Favorite, (FIVE STAR REVIEW)
reviewed by Amy Raines, readersfavorite.com
Pocket of Pain by Lady Warfield follows the life of a young woman as she embarks on a ski trip with her friends and then finds herself in a very intense relationship. With her parents' marriage steadily going downhill and the verbal abuse her father delivers, it is very difficult for her to see the difference between a healthy relationship and an unhealthy one. Her boyfriend becomes so controlling that he forces her to choose between her friends and him, but that’s only the beginning. As his narcissistic tendencies become worse and worse, she strives to find her own peace of mind. But, with the trauma that mental and emotional abuse have left behind, will she be able to move forward and find the happiness she deserves?
Pocket of Pain is a memoir that will take you on a roller coaster of psychological trauma that happens when someone is mentally abused. Lady Warfield has an unbelievable amount of resilience that will benefit anyone who chooses to read her book. This talented writer shows a remarkable amount of courage that shines through the mental growth that is evident in each chapter. The challenges she faced will help others in similar situations see that they are not alone and that they can overcome abuse. I recommend this memoir to those who enjoy true stories that inspire others to move forward, past the pain of abuse, and into a newer and brighter future. I hope Lady Warfield continues writing more books like this that will help other victims learn how to heal from mental and emotional pain.
READER REVIEWS - curated from Amazon Readers and Goodreads
A Punk Odyssey of Resilience and Redemption - A Captivating Tale of Triumph Amidst Turmoil - 5.0 out of 5 stars
In "Pocket of Pain," Lady Warfield takes readers on a poignant and gripping exploration of a young girl's coming-of-age during the 1980s punk era. Through the crumbling foundations of her family, an abusive boyfriend, and the omnipresent gaslighting and abuse, this remarkable story showcases the indomitable spirit of the human soul and the transformative power of resilience.
Set against the backdrop of the vibrant punk subculture in Washington, DC and Richmond, VA, the book offers a raw and unflinching portrayal of the challenges faced by the protagonist. From the first page, the author establishes an atmosphere of unrest, rebellion, and chaos, mirroring her tumultuous journey. Through skillful storytelling, we witness her growth, from an innocent and naïve girl to a courageous and self-assured young woman.
One of the most striking aspects of this book is the author's ability to navigate heavy and sensitive subjects with both grace and honesty. The depiction of her toxic relationship with an abusive boyfriend, where the author doesn't shy away from highlighting the manipulative tactics employed by the antagonist is very powerful.
However, amidst the darkness and despair, the shining light of resilience and optimism permeates the narrative. She displays unwavering determination to rise above her circumstances which serves as an inspiration to readers.
Throughout the book, the author skillfully weaves together her personal growth with the broader cultural and social context of the punk era. The music, fashion, and rebellious spirit of the time are vividly brought to life, immersing readers in an era of unconventional beauty and self-expression. Lady Warfield’s attention to detail and authentic portrayal of the punk subculture add depth and richness to the story, making it feel both personal and universal.
"Pocket of Pain” is a gripping and thought-provoking read that serves as a powerful reminder that, even in the face of adversity, one can find strength, rebuild their life, and carve their path towards a brighter future.
Lady Warfield has created a poignant and memorable tale that will resonate with readers long after they turn the final page. This book stands as a testament to the power of the human spirit and the capacity for hope even in the darkest of times.
Barbara Clark - Reviewed on July 14, 2023
Punk Rock Goddess With an Amazing Story - 5 stars!
What an amazing story! I picked up this book after discovering the author on social media and I cannot put it down. Beautifully written and heartfelt, this is a story of triumph, endurance, self-worth, insight, and survival; and you cannot beat the music and GenX time period!
This book is a reminder for us all that we are not our trauma, but rather, we are the embodiment of having survived. Buckle up and enjoy - you won't be able to put this book down.
Christine Macdonald - Reviewed Sept 2, 2023
Powerful Debut Memoir - 5 stars!
Pocket of Pain is a powerful debut memoir from Lady Warfield. This deeply profound book is wrapped up in 1970 and 1980 references that showcase how girls/teenagers/young women were often searching for love in, well, all the wrong places. Lady Warfield reminds readers that one can overcome trauma once they find the light and survive.
Savannah - Reviewed on July 13, 2023
Holy WoW this is written so well! I am invested in the story like I am binge-watching a show! Truly so good with such heart. I highly recommend this book! It reads like fiction in the best possible way! Love Love Love!
Brandy Knight - Reviewed on July 14, 2023
Riveting! Page turner! - 5 stars
Lady Warfield is a fantastic writer and tells a story in such a way its hard to put the book down once you’ve started reading it. I am not an avid reader, however, when I read the first paragraph I kept on going and couldn’t stop. I finished this book in just 3 sittings. It was THAT good! I will be sharing this with everyone I know. She really keeps you interested right to the end. Great writing!!
On behalf of my 90 year old mother, who is an avid reader but no access to a computer, I’m writing her review here:
Pocket of Pain was a book I could not put down. Her wonderful way with words is what I enjoyed the most. For example, Lady Warfield tells the story without actually going into the sordid details, such as when she talks about the sexual abuse she endured as a young woman. Not too many authors do this. Very impressed, especially being her first publication. Congratulations! I highly recommend this book to all readers.
kimberly kottke - Reviewed on July 14, 2023