EDITORIAL AND READER REVIEWS - POCKET OF PAIN
Editorial Reviews
Pocket of Pain - A Story of Transformation and Survival (FIVE STAR REVIEW)
by —Stephanie Elizabeth Long, Writer/Reviewer for ReaderViews.com
“Pocket of Pain” by LadyWarfield is an exceptional memoir—poignant yet incredibly inspirational—about a young woman who endures gaslighting and abuse but eventually finds the courage to leave it all behind. Set in northern Virginia during the early to mid-80s, the author regaled me with new-wave nostalgia and bold fashion reminiscent of the era. Like many teens, music played an essential role in her evolution; classic rock and new punk bands created the soundtrack to the moving coming-of-age book.
While I would recommend this book to anyone, it would resonate most with those who are/ have been in an emotionally abusive relationship. The author expertly illustrated the loss of identity one experiences when controlled by a relentless narcissist. Her friendships became strained, and her interest in anything beyond Steve dissipated as he forcefully made her world smaller, making it all about him.
“Pocket of Pain” profoundly impacted me - not just because it reminded me of being young and navigating toxic relationships, but because her evolution was mesmerizing. It was hard to believe that the book only spanned a few years; the lessons she learned that led to her empowerment seemed like decades. From a young people-pleaser, desperate to be loved by a poisonous manipulator, to a feisty punk-rocker who won’t take flak from anyone, I read the final page feeling awe-inspired by her journey. Her transformation has forever left an imprint on my heart.
Ladies, you do not want to miss out on this powerful memoir! LadyWarfield has taken 80s nostalgia and woven it into a timeless tale of young transformation. Her story is an emotional rollercoaster, but one I’d ride again and again. She proves to readers that we all have the strength to persevere when it feels like the world is closing in—five stars for this root-worthy story of survival.
Readers' Favorite, (FIVE STAR REVIEW)
reviewed by Amy Raines, readersfavorite.com
Pocket of Pain by Lady Warfield follows the life of a young woman as she embarks on a ski trip with her friends and then finds herself in a very intense relationship. With her parents' marriage steadily going downhill and the verbal abuse her father delivers, it is very difficult for her to see the difference between a healthy relationship and an unhealthy one. Her boyfriend becomes so controlling that he forces her to choose between her friends and him, but that’s only the beginning. As his narcissistic tendencies become worse and worse, she strives to find her own peace of mind. But, with the trauma that mental and emotional abuse have left behind, will she be able to move forward and find the happiness she deserves?
Pocket of Pain is a memoir that will take you on a roller coaster of psychological trauma that happens when someone is mentally abused. Lady Warfield has an unbelievable amount of resilience that will benefit anyone who chooses to read her book. This talented writer shows a remarkable amount of courage that shines through the mental growth that is evident in each chapter. The challenges she faced will help others in similar situations see that they are not alone and that they can overcome abuse. I recommend this memoir to those who enjoy true stories that inspire others to move forward, past the pain of abuse, and into a newer and brighter future. I hope Lady Warfield continues writing more books like this that will help other victims learn how to heal from mental and emotional pain.
READER REVIEWS - from Amazon Readers and Goodreads
A Punk Odyssey of Resilience and Redemption - A Captivating Tale of Triumph Amidst Turmoil - 5 Stars!
In "Pocket of Pain," Lady Warfield takes readers on a poignant and gripping exploration of a young girl's coming-of-age during the 1980s punk era. Through the crumbling foundations of her family, an abusive boyfriend, and the omnipresent gaslighting and abuse, this remarkable story showcases the indomitable spirit of the human soul and the transformative power of resilience.
Set against the backdrop of the vibrant punk subculture in Washington, DC and Richmond, VA, the book offers a raw and unflinching portrayal of the challenges faced by the protagonist. From the first page, the author establishes an atmosphere of unrest, rebellion, and chaos, mirroring her tumultuous journey. Through skillful storytelling, we witness her growth, from an innocent and naïve girl to a courageous and self-assured young woman.
One of the most striking aspects of this book is the author's ability to navigate heavy and sensitive subjects with both grace and honesty. The depiction of her toxic relationship with an abusive boyfriend, where the author doesn't shy away from highlighting the manipulative tactics employed by the antagonist is very powerful.
However, amidst the darkness and despair, the shining light of resilience and optimism permeates the narrative. She displays unwavering determination to rise above her circumstances which serves as an inspiration to readers.
Throughout the book, the author skillfully weaves together her personal growth with the broader cultural and social context of the punk era. The music, fashion, and rebellious spirit of the time are vividly brought to life, immersing readers in an era of unconventional beauty and self-expression. Lady Warfield’s attention to detail and authentic portrayal of the punk subculture add depth and richness to the story, making it feel both personal and universal.
"Pocket of Pain” is a gripping and thought-provoking read that serves as a powerful reminder that, even in the face of adversity, one can find strength, rebuild their life, and carve their path towards a brighter future.
Lady Warfield has created a poignant and memorable tale that will resonate with readers long after they turn the final page. This book stands as a testament to the power of the human spirit and the capacity for hope even in the darkest of times.
Barbara Clark - Reviewed on July 14, 2023
Can't Put It Down!! - 5 stars!
This memoir is timely, powerful and of the "Can't Put It Down" variety. The 80's vibes, music, fashion, and yearning for rebellion, echo in Lady Warfield's story of a young woman whose confident ideals of self and love written by society meets reality in an angry home life and an abusive boyfriend. The story is raw and honest, pulling no punches. This is a young woman who is societally and personally silenced and manipulated but survives to find her own voice and strength. This is an account needed NOW in all our lives.
Rania L. - July 15, 2023
An extraordinary memoir and a must read! - 5 stars!
LadyWarfield’s extraordinary memoir takes you on a highly entertaining, poignant, and emotional roller coaster ride through her coming of age story.
For anyone growing up in the 70s and 80s "Pocket of Pain" will have you re-living your own teenage love stories and sexual awakening! Often, she leads us into emotionally jarring and triggering territory as she expertly depicts a world that is amusing and endearing while also dark and filled with suspense until the very last page.
LadyWarfield’s writing is thoroughly engaging and deeply reflective as she narrates her teenage adventures and life experiences. "Pocket of Pain" is a must read!
Nadine Schwartz (Kamanadine)
"Feelin' like I'm almost 16 again!" - 5 Star
LadyWarfield has a great writing style. The places she takes you are described with the right amount of chosen words. She has natural wit and humor, which makes this book feel so good to read; it flows. Lady Warfield writes with just the right amount of description, you are there with those kids....maybe feeling a nice sweater on a teenage hunk...lol.
Those teenage years, filled with teenage thinking....I love this book because it takes you thru a time, I love the descriptions of people and places and emotions, we humans; parent or childen have so many.. she brings this depth without the pretense. Really gifted, great writing style. Can't wait for the next book.
SunshineandSnow
"Lady Warfield's candid storytelling offers readers relentless optimism in the face of harrowing times. Her narrative exudes strength." —Jen Knox, globally published and award-winning writer, and writing coach. Author of We Arrive Uninvited
Punk Rock Goddess With an Amazing Story - 5 stars!
What an amazing story! I picked up this book after discovering the author on social media and I cannot put it down. Beautifully written and heartfelt, this is a story of triumph, endurance, self-worth, insight, and survival; and you cannot beat the music and GenX time period!
This book is a reminder for us all that we are not our trauma, but rather, we are the embodiment of having survived. Buckle up and enjoy - you won't be able to put this book down.
Christine Macdonald - Sept 2, 2023
Powerful Debut Memoir - 5 stars!
Pocket of Pain is a powerful debut memoir from Lady Warfield. This deeply profound book is wrapped up in 1970 and 1980 references that showcase how girls/teenagers/young women were often searching for love in, well, all the wrong places. Lady Warfield reminds readers that one can overcome trauma once they find the light and survive.
Savannah - July 13, 2023
Holy WoW this is written so well! I am invested in the story like I am binge-watching a show! Truly so good with such heart. I highly recommend this book! It reads like fiction in the best possible way! Love Love Love!
Riveting! Page turner! - 5 stars!
Lady Warfield is a fantastic writer and tells a story in such a way its hard to put the book down once you’ve started reading it. I am not an avid reader, however, when I read the first paragraph I kept on going and couldn’t stop. I finished this book in just 3 sittings. It was THAT good! I will be sharing this with everyone I know. She really keeps you interested right to the end. Great writing!!
On behalf of my 90 year old mother, who is an avid reader but no access to a computer, I’m writing her review here:
Pocket of Pain was a book I could not put down. Her wonderful way with words is what I enjoyed the most. For example, Lady Warfield tells the story without actually going into the sordid details, such as when she talks about the sexual abuse she endured as a young woman. Not too many authors do this. Very impressed, especially being her first publication. Congratulations! I highly recommend this book to all readers.
kimberly kottke
Real and unfiltered - 5 Stars
What I loved most is how the author captures that feeling of pushing through—finding strength where you didn’t know you had it. It’s raw and honest.
Aloisius Abernathy
Great Writing! -5 Stars
I couldn't put this book down! Lady Warfield has a tight handle on storytelling. The story was engaging and paced just right. It felt like I was walking through the story with her. I would recommend this to anyone who enjoys reading coming-of-age stories. It was also really fun to "relive" the 80's a bit with her music choices and fashion, both hair and clothes...80's hair was epic! Definitely recommend this book.
Sharon